Do you want to have a great December in South Korea? I love winter and I look forward to December every year so I would love to share how I keep the fun rolling year-round. Here is how I maximize my life during one of my favorite times of the year. The Importance of December Getting December right sets the tone for the three coldest months of the year in South Korea. Leaning into winter from the beginning may limit your suffering and allow you to avoid the cold weather mood crash. Embrace the fact that how you live in the winter might happen differently than other months and just fall in love with it. In fact, if you don’t take winter seriously in December it can negatively impact the rest of winter in small or big ways. Having a great winter requires a certain amount of momentum and planning so that you don’t feel the negative impact of the cold, shorter days, and potentially reduced social life. Here are a few ways your approach to December may positively or negatively impact your life: Let’s take a look at systems and plans for making sure we don’t fall into poor habits that undermine our mental and physical health. My Relationship with December I’m from Alaska and I love how I get to dress for Korean the winter. Since Korea isn’t that cold for me, I get to embrace the FUN winter looks rather than just wear survival gear. I love wearing sweaters, fun hats, crazy scarves, leg warmers, and whatever else I can find. Each year I purchase more fun items to layer so that I can always look like a 1970s ski catalog or a hobo. I don’t mess around with winter weather because the cold can be dangerous if not taken seriously. As a kid, I almost died many times in winter for various reasons but since I prepared well I am still alive today. In order to safely enjoy the cold months I plan, prepare, and execute with timely precision to continue to feel safe in winter. Being ready for cold weather and fun in a safe and secure way exists as a top priority for me. As an Alaskan, I know seasonal depression can impact many people in a dangerous way. I take no chances with mental health. In our home and our family lives we don’t, “Just survive the winter” because I know how much this passive approach impacts a person’s mental stability year-round. Since Alaska has about 9 months of winter, we can’t afford to be passive and just because South Korea only has 3 months doesn’t mean I let my guard down. Therefore, my cultural approach to winter involves enthusiasm and structure so that my family stays safe AND happy year-round. In this blog post, I’d like to share a little of what such a commitment to the winter looks like in the context of my weekend plans. A Framework for Maximizing Winter Fun In order to maximize my December I focus on three things: This three-part framework creates a wonderful momentum that helps me overcome the previously mentioned hurdles of Physical Comfort, Emotional Comfort, and Social Comfort. Then I take these concepts and apply them to real-world activities and traditions that support my values. You will want to modify the framework to reflect your values. For example, I value time in the mountains but you may value time in warm bright inside spaces. That said, let’s look at an example December plan. My December Plan Using the previously mentioned three-part Winter Fun Framework, my December weekend plan might look like the following. Keep in mind, the following December plan may change based on weather, community events, and financial situation. Some years I might swap the Seoul weekend out for a trip to Busan, Sockcho, Daejeon, or any other beautiful Korean city. However, the other weekends tend to always be the same and I adore the consistency it brings to my life during the holiday season. First Weekend: Prepare for Winter We like to spend one weekend in December at home preparing for winter. With cold weather just around the corner we spend one weekend focused on: When you prepare for winter like this in an organized and methodical way the entire season goes better. Instead of waiting to feel miserable in the cold, simply plan for what’s coming and have what you need ready to access. Such preparations can greatly improve your mental health during the beautifully cold months. Sometimes we manage to fit this into November’s plan but if not, do it in December. This first weekend of December also doubles as a chance to build community. Invite an acquaintance or friends over for your day of preparations. Enjoy hot chocolate, movies, and complaining together about the hardships just around the corner. Then, go over to their house and help them get ready for winter as well. You might find this becomes a favorite way to hang out every year. We also get out our Christmas tree the first weekend of December. We also tend to keep our Christmas tree up through the end of February as well to get the most joy out of it during the winter. Second Weekend: Head to the Slopes Time to hit the slopes for the first ski of the season!!!! We start off with something easy to get back in the grove and head to Welli Hilli. Not all the runs will be open but that doesn’t matter to us. What matter is getting in as many snowboard days as possible each ski season? Since it’s either the first or second weekend of ski season, snow might be limited. This means that you may find a better snow experience visiting the resorts higher in the mountains in Gangwondo. Consider Yongpyong or Phoenix as well. Keep in mind, you may need to flip the second-weekend and third-weekend plans depending on festival schedules and estimated ski opening weekend. Many of these events change based on weather conditions so plans might need to remain a little flexible. Third Weekend: Embrace the Christmas Spirit Just before Christmas, it’s time for a very loaded weekend in Seoul. You might even want to stay Friday night and Saturday night because you will have such a packed schedule. We try to pack in a lot of fun in just two days such as the Seoul Lantern Festival, Seoul Christmas Festival, and Christmas shopping. It’s important to note that Seoul becomes brutally cold in the winter. The concrete streets and buildings funnel the wind creating what feels like harsh wind tunnels. You need to wear heavily wind-resistant shoes, gloves, jacket, hat, etc. What might feel comfortable in the countryside on the same day might not be warm enough in Seoul. Additionally, the Christmas Festival and the Lantern Festival occur outside. This means you need comfortable shoes for getting from one place to another. Coffee shops, restaurants, and warm places in these areas may be packed. Dress far more comfortably and warmly than you have ever done before. Fourth Weekend: Christmas with Friends and Family Usually, this weekend we stay closer to home since it’s around Christmas time. We will visit some of our communities’ lighted areas and enjoy a sense of community. We might throw a little Christmas eve dinner party or meet friends at a local restaurant. Making time in each month to connect with our community sits at the foundation of our life in South Korea. If you don’t schedule time for friends and family while living abroad you may find that loneliness quickly catches up with you. However, if you contact all the people you’ve had a nice conversation with and get together for a holiday dinner, you may find your life filling up with the community you yearn to have. Fifth Weekend: Welcome the New Year The western New Year’s weekend often involves going to a community New Year’s Festival and celebrating Korean style. A Korean-style New Year’s celebration involves either staying up all night or getting up early to watch the sunrise together. It’s less about the midnight countdown and more about seeing the first sunlight of the year as a group. Sometimes we go to Pyeontaek Lake for the local event and sometimes we head to the east coast to watch the sunrise there. Both have one big thing in common, it’s a cold morning and you need to wear a lot of gear. More December Resources Of course, this December plan reflects my values and favorite things. You might prefer to stay inside, want to see more festivals, or want to take a hike at a National Park. South of Seoul has many resources to help you find what’s right for you including a set of blog posts related to life in December. Empowered to be Happy Each year I feel incredible social pressure to hate winter. People sometimes become socially aggressive about the fact cold weather makes me feel happy. It’s as if no one should feel joy in winter. However, I won’t let their cultural or personal perspective on the season take my joy. Additionally, I want others to feel supported in embracing the beauty of winter. With a little planning, winter exists as something we can deeply enjoy each year. We all make choices in our day and those choices can have the power to change our own perceptions and experiences. It’s worth attempting to challenge or change our own negative narratives surrounding winter in order to live happier healthier lives and set an example to others that winter happy exists. We can dig into our own resourcefulness and find solutions to our discomfort, inconvenience, or frustration that make us think, “Wow, I resiliant and winter can be fun!” Hopefully this blogs empowers you to find your joyful in December. Embrace all your choices and discover the December possibilities. The next thing you know, winter will be over too soon and spring flowers will be tickling your imagination. Lanae Rivers-Woods, MAITLanae Rivers-Woods moved to Korea in 2011 where she lives in the countryside with her family, friends, and puppies. She holds a BSSW (Bachelor’s of Science in Social Work), a MAIT (Master’s of Arts in International Teaching), and registered by the Pyeongtaek Korean Times with the Korean government as a Cultural Expert. Ms. Rivers-Woods used her 15 years experience as a social architect, UX/UI designer, and technology consultant to found South of Seoul in 2015. South of Seoul is a volunteer organization that leverages technological tools to mitigate cultural dissonance in multi-cultural communities. Through South of Seoul, Ms. Rivers-Woods works with independent volunteers, non-profit organizations, businesses, local & federal government, universities, and US military organizations to develop solutions to support English speaking international residents in rural South Korea. Additionally, Ms. Rivers-Woods founded the South of Seoul smart phone app available for Google Play and iPhone. The app provides information a resources for those living and traveling in South Korea. When she isn’t in South of Seoul development meetings or working her day job, Ms. Rivers-Woods loves to be outside at skate parks, the beach, or playing in the mountains. www.southofseoul.net

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Wondering what to expect during December in South Korea? Let’s take a look at the rhythm of life as the winter starts to settle in. Gimjang Season Ends Different communities and families may have their gimjang (kimjang) activities in early December since the cold weather makes the perfect kimchi-making weather. South of Seoul began hosting a gimjang for international residents in 2022 to help our community also prepare for the winter months. Houses Get Winterized In December people turn on their floor heat, maybe add bubble wrap to the windows, etc. During this time all residents need to make sure their pipes won’t freeze and their bodies will stay warm at home throughout the cold winter months. New arrivals in Korea will want to make sure they stay on top of winterizing their homes along with everyone else. Hikers Remain Active Even with the cold weather setting in, many hikers continue their mountain adventures. They trade in their warm weather gear for winter-ready clothes that protect against the cold winds and allow for plenty of wicking. In fact, South of Seoul has a hiking list with recommendations for what National Parks to visit in December and other winter months. Organized Events Slow Down With the onset of cold weather, residents of South Korea start staying home more. Organizations rush to finish out their calendar year and event planning begins to die down. The Winter Lights Begin As winter sets in, winter lights go up across South Korea. Malls from Seoul to Busan will have huge light displays and cities will also turn on their holiday lights. These displays may run until March since they often represent the winter spirit rather than just Christmas. Increased Snow Fall By December, snow can start showing up regularly in the northern areas of Korea. Snow often occurs for a few hours and then goes away quickly during December if you live in the South or on the west coast. Different parts of Korea experience winter and snowfall very differently so we can’t say exactly what will happen in December. Ski Season Begins In mid-December ski and snowboard resorts across South Korea begin making snow. The early season begins in December. In My Korea shared this ski information for 2022. Additionally, many international residents find skiing and snowboarding in South Korea both affordable and accessible. In fact, many tour companies offer discounted daily and weekend trips to the international community. Beautiful Time to Visit the Coast The beaches in Korea are gorgeous in the winter. Are they cold? Yes, they are. They are also deeply beautiful and romantic. Dress warm and go beach combing. It’s wonderful. Do not miss the stunning winter coastline. It’s a whole cultural experience that you need to enjoy while you live in Korea. Winter Street Food Season December marks the exciting start of Korean street food season when it gets cold enough for more egg bread, sweet potatoes, and hotteok. We all look forward for to the premium versions of these foods that often only come around once the cold weather hits. Christmas Romance The cold weather in December makes Christmas the perfect dating holiday for non-religious couples. Unlike many western countries, Christmas in Korea doesn’t focus heavily on families. Instead, it’s a day for couples to go out to dinner and celebrate their love – much like Valentine’s Day. Each year the commercialization of Christmas increases. Malls, cafes, and restaurants now decorate for the holidays with greater enthusiasm and the decorations may stay in place until as late as March. University Vacation Time In mid-December, Universities across South Korea finish their fall semester and go on winter break. During this time, international university professors working in Korea often leave to visit home or travel abroad. Seasonal Depression During winter some people may feel seasonal depression. Such winter depression may feel stronger in Korea for many international residents due to culture shock, lack of a strong social support system, and other factors. Remember that South Korea does have English language mental health support organizations. It’s smart and healthy to seek support when you need it. Time for Building Community With many people staying home more, December makes the perfect time for having friends over for game nights, holiday meals, book clubs, cooking together, etc. Many people are looking for connection community and support. Take advantage of winter for making friends and learning new things. ESL /EFL Hiring Season in Full Swing With the school year coming to an end and winter vacation just around the corner, many schools will start hiring their ESL/EFL teachers for the coming school year. South of SeoulFounded in 2015, the South of Seoul team consists of volunteers on three continents working together to support English-speaking people traveling or living in South Korea. South of Seoul volunteers work with organizations and individuals across South Korea to improve equitable access to information across South Korea. Much of South of Seoul’s information focuses on Pyeongtaek, Gyeonggi-do, South Korea. Blogs published under the authorship of “South of Seoul” include blogs compiled by multiple volunteers to improve access to standardized information unrelated to individualized personal experiences. www.southofseoul.net

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